About

I am a well educated transgender woman, a demisexual lesbian, and an eclectic Pagan. I am loving and giving. I am a caretaker type, who often fails miserably at self care.

I have diagnoses of fibromyalgia, myofascial pain syndrome, moderate cervical spine stenosis, complex PTSD, major depression, and epilepsy. I’ve just recently added atrial fibrillation to that list.

I am a widow. The day that my wife died, the doctor came to me asking for my permission to stop all life-saving measures. I said “Call it” to the doctor, thereby finalizing her death.

I am complex, complicated, and worth the effort.

Do you want to know more about me? Go ahead and ask. But let me warn you up front. This is not an erotica blog. Inappropriate questions from anonymous posters will be ignored.

My pronouns are she/her/hers.